创业宝贝
Nowadays, the problems of generation gap become more and more serious. The poor relationship between parents and their children is very common. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?Firstly, in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this causes the rare communication between them and theft children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These parents and children cannot know deeply about each other and friction will appear. Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try to communicate with their children as their equals. Thus, misinterpretation of them may easily occur.To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to communicate with their children actively and friendly to improve their relation. At the same time, they can also observe their children's behavior at the same time in order to understand heir children's personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them. Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them.
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1、正文 The idea of each person is different, naturally there is the differences in language, also appeared in the catchword of generation gap now. Parents think that since I gave birth to you, you should complete listen to me, but this is wrong. Although the law, parents are the guardian of children, keep the to the age of 18, but parents also there is no need to impose their feudal ideas to children. Is the so-called parents dont want to let the child to do, children, the more willing to challenge the limit of the parents. Now children after 00, mostly only children, by the education is the best. So parents dont need to put their own ideas about the childs body, as for the problem of puppy love now, parents repeatedly discouraged, and education, but I want to ask, useful? Is not the best to fight, the way of the cold war ended, not communicate slowly sit down with the kids. Parents always think that they have no wrong, he is high above the, beat and scold the child is normal, because there used to be a famous saying the stern father son, but I want to say, that was the last time, please dont compared with modern, you should keep up with the trend of The Times, we know you is good for us, but in a different way, the result is different also. Now the children are in the rebellious period, temper is normal, but their parents think children back to the unfilial, is bound to cause a family war. Child achievement good, delicious good drink honours, record down, is not let into the house, you only see the childs grades, but not children how hard. Dont they saw scores and sad? More for your child to think it over. I just hope that parents understand the children, to narrow the generation gap. 2、译文 每一个人的思想不同,自然而然就出现了语言上的差别,也就出现在了现在的流行语代沟。 父母觉得我既然生了你们,你们就应该完完全全听我的,但这是错的。虽然法律规定,父母是孩子的监护人,要看守到18岁,但父母也没有必要去把他们那种封建思想强加到孩子身上。正所谓父母越不愿意让孩子去做的事,孩子越愿意去挑战父母的极限。 现在00后孩子,大多数是独生子女,受到的教育自也是最好的。所以父母没有必要去把自己的思想灌输的孩子的身上,至于现在的早恋问题,父母一再阻止、教育,但我想问一下,有用吗?还不是最好以吵架、冷战的方式结束,不如坐下来与孩子们慢慢交流。 父母总以为自己没有错,自己是高高在上的,打骂孩子是正常的,因为以前有一句名言严父出孝子,但我想说,那已是过去的时代,请不要与现代比较,你们应该跟上时代的潮流,我们知道你们为我们好,但方式不同,出现的结果也就不同。现在的孩子正处于叛逆期,脾气暴躁是正常的,但父母觉得孩子顶嘴属于大不孝,必定会引起一场家庭战争。 孩子成绩好的时候,好吃好喝供奉着,成绩一落,便是不让进家门,你们只看得到孩子的成绩,却看不到孩子有多么努力。难道他们看到成绩就不伤心吗?多替孩子考虑考虑吧。 我只希望家长理解一下孩子,让代沟缩小。
映雪堂明
How to deal with generation gap?When it comes to the topic generation gap. Most of us could get the conception that there is no many words between the Two generation.0f course, from the conception and reality ,it is so. Judging from such reason. We could deal with it from the root.For the parents , they should get more heart mind about children and read their heartily carefully. More communication will help them to reduce the gap. Certainly, as children, they should learn the parents thought, do to demand any hard expectation. So that , it may be a good result for everyone.
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