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和同性恋倾向方面。本文拟从她成长的家庭、男权统治秩序及她幼年遭遇的性侵害来透视她的女权主义思想渊源。关键词:弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫;女权主义思想;家庭环境;男权统治;性侵害弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫堪称文学史上影响深远的作家之一,不仅因其以《到灯塔去》、《海浪》等作品扬起了意识流的风帆,而且还以《一间自己的房子》吹响了女权主义的号角。但在四、五十年代,英国文学评论界却对她颇有微词。从70 年代以来,在英国文学研究领域却又涌起了一股对她重新研究的热浪,人们研究她作品中的女性主义、她的意识流写作手法及其文学评论,甚至有人研究她的“发疯”、癖好、相貌等等,因此她再次成为现代主义文学研究关注的焦点。尤其是近年来,关于她的研究更多集中在其女权主义思想和同性恋倾向方面。但这位曾多次参与妇女解放运动、发表了无数关于妇女问题的论著及众多小说、并提出了许多女性文学话语权利的作家却“拒绝承认她所持的‘女权主义’立场,甚至对‘女权主义’这一称谓都十分反感”(伍厚凯,1999,p. 321)。那么,她到底是不是女权主义者?她的女权主义思想又是如何形成的?笔者以为,她的女权主义思想与她成长的家庭、男权统治下的社会大环境及早年所受的性侵害等密不可分。本文拟以多维视角透视她的女权主义思想渊源。笔者以为,伍尔夫之所以否认自己的女权主义立场,是因为任何文学作品一旦被贴上“主义”的标签,则和时代的政治背景休戚相关。而时代过去了,就意味着该作品也失去了其应有的光环。因此,几乎所有作家都不愿意其作品被冠以“主义”。伍尔夫也不例外。尽管她拒绝承认自己所持的“女权主义”立场,但她的小说却处处洋溢着饱满的女性意识。其处女作《远航》就漫画式地描绘了一个“女权主义者”形象。她高谈阔论,风头甚劲,试图为女性争得与男性平等的权利,但却处处以帝国的男性统治者和政客为楷模,潜意识里无法摆脱男权体制的控制。主人公这无奈的处境表明了作者的忧虑与彷徨,同时也启迪人们,妇女必须为争取权利而行动;《夜与日》运用了象征手法,“夜”代表女性,意指想象、情感和直觉,而“日”则代表男性,涵盖着对事实、理性和逻辑的崇尚。这一主题蕴涵了男女两性的对立互补,应相互融合的关系;在《雅各之室》里,作者凸现了男女两性之间无法协调的裂痕,也强调了两性之间的沟通无比重要;在《到灯塔去》中,兰萨姆夫妇的品质更是形成了鲜明的对比:男性死板僵化,恪守逻辑,女性灵活敏锐,无所不思,体现了女性对事物及人际关系深刻的洞察力;在弥漫着幻想色彩的《奥兰多》中,主人公经历了400 多年之久的人世变幻,其性别也在沧海桑田般世事变迁中阴阳交替:他由起初的翩翩少年、王室宠臣转而变成了花容月貌的少妇,并创作了47 部作品。在这个身兼两性的人物身上,无疑寄托了伍尔夫对于性别的思索,也是值得后世女权主义者反复玩味的不可忽视的杰作。在《一间自己的房子》里,她明确提出了“双性同体”的美学思想,这部著作可谓其女权主义思想成熟的标志。她批评作家执着于自己的性别,都用自己头脑的单一侧面在思考与写作,便都不是自由的、完美的。她指出这既不能归咎于男人,也【作者简介】李利(1965-),女,陕西蒲城人,西安外国语大学教育学院副教授;研究方向:外语教学、英美文学。对弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫女权主义思想的多维透视75不能归咎于女人,应归罪于一切使人特别感觉到“性”的人以及他们所铸造的传统观念体系。她认为理想的艺术家应该是男性气质与女性气质的兼容,两性交融才是优秀作品的创作源泉。从以上作品的题旨,我们不难看出,弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫无疑具有清醒的女权主义意识。虽然在以往的一些文学史中,她被认为是不食人间烟火、对政治漠不关心的唯美主义艺术家。然而,她的作品如《一间自己的房子》、《三基尼金币》、《论妇女与小说》、《论简·奥斯丁》及《空袭中的沉思》等却充分证明了她对妇女与文学及反男权战争的思考。她犀利的笔锋直指男权社会。她认为,男性撰写的历史使女性处于失语状态,阉割了女性作为人类的另一半的话语权;父权制使女性成为作家的道路举步维艰;相对于男性,妇女文学具有一些男人所无法企及的独特的品质;战争和男权有一种必然的内在联系,而女性品质则可以使人类避免自我毁灭的厄运。她将战争与男权联系起来,这独到的见解无疑表明她的性别立场。在纳粹炮声隆隆中,她以《三基尼金币》发布了独特的反战宣言。此后,她在给一名律师的信中反诘到:“难道不是父权制度使你们趋向战争吗?”她认为妇女天生具有和平、抚慰的特质,可以极大地缓解男人的攻击欲、狂妄和凶残。然而,“许多大门还对我们妇女关闭着,或者最多只是开启了一条小缝。”她还将家庭中的男权主义与政治上的法西斯主义关联起来:“众人的世界与自我的世界紧密联系,前者的暴政奴役衍化出后者的暴政与奴役。”在她看来,要解决战争问题首先得解决妇女问题。如果不解决男权统治下女性受教育和就业的问题,那么男性操纵世界的姿态便随时可能爆发战争。故而,她的《三基尼金币》“是那一时期批判上层人物和国家纠结在一起的纳粹精神的最激烈的作品”(S.M.Gilbert & S.Gubar,1985,p. 1225)。由此可见,伍尔夫以其言其行彰显了女权主义思想从萌芽到成熟的艰辛历程。她不断追求男女平等,渴望用一种双性同体的心灵进行创作。同时,她又肯定了女性自己的文学传统和明显的女性风格的存在。毋庸质疑,她是女权主义思想举足轻重的发轫者之一。她这一思想的形成根植于其成长的家庭、男权统治下的社会体制及早年所遭遇的性侵害。她出生于 19 世纪末期的一个知识贵族之家,貌美惊人,才华横溢,气质非凡。其家学可谓源远流长,家庭成员大都受过良好教育,从事法律、教育、写作或在政府部门担任公职。父亲莱斯利·斯蒂芬(1832-1904)是19 世纪的著名作家和编辑。姑妈卡罗琳·爱米丽亚打破世俗,终生未婚,写了许多著作宣传女权主义思想,对伍尔夫影响极大。另一位对她思想有所影响的女性是萨克雷的长女、莱斯利的前妻哈丽特的姐姐安妮·伊萨贝拉,伍尔夫亲切地称这位女作家、萨克雷著作编辑者、女权主义者为“安妮姨妈”。《夜与日》中的希尔伯里夫人即以其为原型。此外,伍尔夫受父母的影响根深蒂固,她反复申说对父母的回忆缠绕了自己终身。父亲正直、严格、富于理性和强烈的道德感是他突出的性格特征,但他身上也打下了深刻的时代烙印:维多利亚时代1 是一个典型的男权中心社会,男性家长享有至高无上的中心地位。父亲虽具有极高的文化修养和正直善良的品德,但仍无法摆脱那个时代男性对女性的普遍态度:既温柔又严厉,既尊重又轻视,潜意识里具有对女性的君临统治欲。他理论上相信妇女受教育的重要性,但实际却把钱都花在男孩身上。伍尔夫从年幼时就非常愤慨于父亲把全部资金都提供给男孩的良好教育,而女孩却只能接受杂七杂八的家庭教师的仁慈施舍,这种愤慨之情正是形成她女权主义思想的来源之一。而她母亲一生的奉献与所求也促使她反思女人的社会及家庭地位。她母亲是“一个美丽的19 世纪中产阶级的妇女”——“她似乎全面证实了维多利亚时代女性行为的典范”2,即男权中心的社会规范造就了与之相适应的女性,女性所承担的是妻子和母亲的角色,是相当繁重的家庭经济事务的管理者。她称母亲这类女性为“房子里的天使”3,是男权社会观照下的产物。母亲也认为“服务,就是女性最高天性的完全实现”。她的反女权主义者思想更是令伍尔夫为女性哀其不幸,鸣其不平。伍尔夫也曾在要么接受命运的摆布要么奋起抗争的两难境地1 维多利亚时代:维多利亚女王(Victoria, 1819-1901)统治时期,即1837-1901。2 Hermione Lee, Virginia Woolf, 85.3 源于维多利亚时代一首描写理想家庭生活的流行诗歌,题目为《房子里的天使》,作者科文特里·帕特莫尔(Coventry Patmore,1823-1896)。对弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫女权主义思想的多维透视76中挣扎徘徊。比如她早年偷偷到父亲的书房广泛阅读的经历有时就让她产生强烈的自卑感:“我,一个女人,有什么权利读所有这些由男人写出的东西?”(伍厚凯,1999,p. 29)。她对男性社会的这种怨羡情结实在是一时难以释怀,因此她文本中的女性人物大多也都怀有怨羡情结。所谓羡慕是人们对于具体的人或物的一种内心艳羡和仰慕,它唤起人的想象、幻想及仿效冲动;而怨恨则是一种内心的抱怨和仇恨,它激发嫉妒、报复或复仇的冲动。人们总是热切地羡慕着某种比自己优越和高级的人或物,但由于客观条件的限制,愈是羡慕却愈增怨恨,而愈是怨恨却愈增羡慕,从而导致一种怨恨与羡慕相互交织的深层体验心理。伍尔夫对于哥哥们能上大学、能和朋友自由通信探讨问题就羡慕至极,而这种羡慕就成了她更专注于阅读的直接契机,仿佛她正在同处于优势地位的兄弟们竞赛,同男权社会的教育制度进行着抗争。她的这种怨羡情结还表现在她对父亲的热爱与怨恨之中。她在1928 年11 月28 日的日记里这样写到:“今天是父亲的生日。他要是在世的话,就96 岁了,是的,今天96 岁:⋯⋯不过幸运的是没有。要是那样他的生命就会扼杀我的生命。会发生什么事呢?没有写作,没有作品——不可想象”(伍厚凯,1999,p. 33)。在母亲朱莉亚去世后,父亲的情感捕食便转而以儿女们为对象,她激愤地写到:“正是那个暴虐的父亲——那个苛刻的、暴烈的、做作的、佯装的、自怨自艾的、装聋作哑的、哀求的、时而可爱时而可恨的父亲——那时候统治着我。这就像和一头疯狂的野兽关在同一个笼子里”(伍厚凯,1999,p. 56)。从这些话语里,我们可以深切地感受到她所受到的精神煎熬。此外,导致她女权主义思想形成的另一个重要原因是来自男性的严重的性侵犯。她6 岁时就受到两个异父兄长的猥亵,一直延续到她22 岁。这种“羞耻感”极大地影响和扭曲了她的人格建构过程。她害怕照镜子,“照镜子的羞耻感持续了我的终生”(伍厚凯,1999,p. 61)。她埋藏在潜意识里的那种对性的恐惧极大地危害了她的心理健康,严重毁损了她的完整人生。她早年的这种强烈的性屈辱体验,促使她深刻反思女性的生存状态。她在叙述受杰拉德尔的猥亵时,说自己当时曾感到难以言说的愤怒和厌恶。这种感觉使她清醒地意识到,承受来自男性的性凌辱和性压迫,乃是女性难以逃避的历史命运。对她而言,侵害她的男性不仅代表着男性霸权社会对女性的性压迫,而且体现了男性的傲慢虚荣和强烈的权利之欲、统治之欲。因此,所有这些经历纠结在一起就构成了弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫在思想体系或艺术创作方面极其明晰的女权主义思想。她的小说创作推动了现代小说的发展,她试图打破男女两性二元对立的格局,以自己独特的视角及艺术表现手法书写了女性的真实生存状态,她对女性社会的这种深刻透视奠定了其女权主义文学批评理论开拓者的地位,其文学影响可谓经久不衰。同时,作为才思敏捷、文采斐然的女作家,她也经历了常人难以想象的精神痛苦,但她告别人世时那种宽厚而平和的胸怀,宁静而恬淡的心境,尊严而优雅的风度,是对她丰富而超然的人生态度的最好诠释,是只有渗透了生命之奥秘后方可达到的境界。总之,她的生命哲理、妇女创作文学观、双性同体思想、女性主义文学批评理论等为人类在美学和文化领域的研究留下了无限的思索空间。参考文献:Jean Moorcraft Wilson. 1987. 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The Feminism Reflected in the Novel Forrest GumpThe commercials for Forrest Gump make it look like the sort of movie described as "wonderful" and "heartwarming"; fortunately, it's better than that. I had read the book, by Winston Groom, and hoped the movie wouldn't lose the engaging voice of the novel -- the voice of Forrest Gump (IQ 75), a simple-minded, good-hearted Southern boy whose life is a series of whimsical, mildly satirical episodes. As it happens, Tom Hanks, as Gump, narrates the movie from a bus-stop bench and delivers many of Groom's best lines. The script isn't as funny as the novel -- the film's Gump isn't as much of a screw-up as the book's Gump -- but it's funny enough, and sometimes it hits daring notes. When Gump tells us that his childhood sweetheart Jenny is lucky to have a father who kisses and touches her and her sisters all the time, the line is funny because it's exactly what the innocent Gump would assume. But it's also not funny. It's these examples of Gump's trusting nature being utterly inaccurate that save Forrest Gump from being mush. The movie, directed by Robert Zemeckis (Who Framed Roger Rabbit), isn't meant to be taken literally; like many enchanting films, it falls apart under close scrutiny. Most people, though, won't have the heart to scrutinize it, and, aside from a few minor complaints, I see no need to, either. Its flaws don't do it any great harm; it's as comforting as an afternoon nap, but also as refreshing, and it's going to be a big hit. Forrest Gump creates its own floating reality, and the problem many critics have with this is that it deals, in large part, with actual historical events (much of the film addresses Vietnam and the peace movement). The movie is meant to be American history as seen through the eyes of a man who understands very little of what he sees. And he speaks for people who can't make any more sense of the last three decades than he can. In other words, Forrest Gump -- America considered through a folksy, satirical lens -- will annoy those who prefer their satire with a harder edge (i.e., satire that punctures the "correct" targets). The movie has drawn fire for being reactionary, and it may well become a favorite of conservatives, but I think that has more to do with what didn't survive the transition from book to movie (Groom's satire was more even-handed) because of time limitations. For example, the radical hippies of the peace movement are presented as slimy, predatory womanizers who slap their girlfriends around (one guy even does this and then blames it on "that goddamn Johnson"). But talk to some women who remember those days and they'll tell you this isn't far from the truth: The "sexual revolution" turned out to be a new, hip variation on the time-honored male ploy to get women to spread their legs, and we're still paying for it. The critics who want to be intellectually one up on the large, stupid wad of Americans who embrace this film are attacking the wrong movie for the wrong reasons. Forrest Gump, a proudly square fantasia, has much more to offer than a likable but coldly hip critics' darling like Four Weddings and a Funeral, and certainly more than the recent crop of hip movies that don't ask you to feel anything -- The Shadow, Wyatt Earp, The Crow, The Flintstones, and on and on. Almost 25 years ago, Pauline Kael wrote that the then-popular movie Joe (another counter-counterculture hit, all but forgotten today) could easily be turned into a Saturday-morning cartoon, and the episodic, virtually plotless Forrest Gump would also be ideal ("Gump Plays Football," "Gump Goes to Vietnam," "Gump Starts a Shrimping Business"). At two hours and twenty-two minutes, the movie is an epic ramble, with characters disappearing and reappearing as the story requires. Gump is a safe guide through the tumult of the '60s, the absurdity of the '70s, and the greed of the '80s. Jenny (played in adulthood by Robin Wright), on the other hand, seems to experience everything terrible about those decades: drugs, soulless sex, more abuse, more drugs, and one final pitfall that isn't in the book. Letting her pristine features collapse into numbness, Wright fleshes out Jenny's self-disgust. This masochistic woman isn't ready for Gump, who, in his infinite kindness, wants only to love her. She embodies American disillusionment, and she will probably make a lot of feminists foam at the mouth. I can't say I disagree; the book's Jenny certainly wasn't this self-hating (she was, in fact, more of a free spirit like Gump). Gump flies through the decades with nary a scratch, but a vague, doomy cloud hangs over poor Jenny, who always makes the worst choices. You may fairly ask what this woman is being punished for. The movie, however, continues to see through Gump's eyes, and since he never judges or condemns Jenny, we clearly aren't meant to. Even the aforementioned feminists may forgive much when they see how tenderly Gump looks at Jenny (the camera agrees with him). Here, Tom Hanks cements his status as the movies' great modern romantic lead. Handsome (though not in a plastic cover-boy way -- especially not with the dorky Gump buzz-cut he's been given), non-threatening, emotionally direct, Hanks is the obvious successor to James Stewart, who in his early thirties would have done well by Gump. Hanks' Gump is as solemnly attentive as an owl, absorbing information he can't add up. But he's also confident enough in himself to be good-natured despite his low intelligence; he remembers nothing so much as what his dear, tough mama (Sally Field in a tart, restrained performance) told him: You're no different than anyone else. One of the movie's ironies is that only an idiot like Gump could have such terrific self-esteem. Zemeckis makes Tom Hanks lovable, but Hanks resists being shameless -- he has too much good humor for that. His beautifully modulated work as a grieving man in Sleepless in Seattle seemed too hefty for that piffly romantic comedy, yet he had a superb moment parodying women's weepy connection to An Affair to Remember -- he and a buddy sobbed while recalling choice scenes in The Dirty Dozen. And in Philadelphia he proved he wouldn't disgrace himself by shilling for easy tears. Hanks doesn't make Forrest Gump a cutie-pie. He intensifies his greatest resource as an actor -- that we can read him better than any star since James Stewart -- so that Gump's feelings come across with startling clarity. When Hanks has his big moment near the end -- Gump talking to Jenny and fighting to keep his composure -- the audience is his to lose, and he doesn't. He also has the generosity to step aside and let his co-stars take over: Mykelti Williamson as Bubba, who worships shrimp; Gary Sinise as Lieutenant Dan, who is disabled in Vietnam and blames Gump for saving his life, because he'd wanted to die heroically in combat. These fine actors ground the movie in bitter reality. A review of Forrest Gump wouldn't be complete without a mention of the astounding computer-generated visual effects, which enable Gump to interact (in actual newsreel footage) with JFK, Nixon, John Lennon, and many others, and also give us small pleasures that don't announce themselves as artificial: a ping-pong ball, the feather during the opening credits, the peace rally of thousands of people -- all computerized images, of course. This shouldn't be surprising coming from Robert Zemeckis, the toy-shop magician who seems to set himself a new technical challenge with each movie (his last was Death Becomes Her). What is surprising is that Zemeckis should have such assured control of such potentially sugary material. Embracing sentiment while avoiding the pitfalls of sentimentality is a special effect in itself.

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女权主义他们有了工作,但是男女平等主义者不被使~满意; 每隔一女人必须也拿一。 因此他们向有野蛮的主妇开火以仍然在我们的文化各处发回声。 一个主妇是 " 寄生虫 ",[贝蒂] Frieden 写; 如此的女人在 " 一点也不完全人类 " 的范围例如他们 " 从未知道对一个主意的一个承诺 " 。 大卫 Gelernter,引起生活,平安渡过邮包炸手,释放杂志报纸,1997,p。 95当凯特 Millett 在 1969 家庭一定去中法令的时候,家庭主妇而不是男人, 是女权主义的视力猎物。 男女平等主义者不为传统的女人说。 然而,男人不能够知道这, 除非我们告诉他们我们如何在家中觉得他们,我们的孩子 , 和我们的角色。 男人一定了解向他们和我们的孩子我们的感觉被男女平等主义者嘲弄并且已经赚我们他们的敌意。是否这理解逐渐获取男人的支持, 传统的女人一定防护我们自己因为男女平等主义的攻势最本质上,是由于我们一个团结的裂口, 义务的 disavowel 尊敬女人的契约 [ 宗教性的独身者,专业的女人和主妇尊敬彼此]哪一运动的女人对我们亏欠。 F. 卡洛琳 Graglia ,国内的宁静, 摘要反对女权主义,出版公司,达拉斯的斯彭斯,1998,p。 97" 我不是那种女人变白色 ",写小说家珍微笑的, 在解释之前她如何仅仅做和,在程序中,她发现了她自己当什么分类的女人。 一个男女平等主义的有知识者和实际的比较中西部的, 微笑的总是有发誓放弃虚荣心.她戴了眼镜和简单的白色棉花内衣裤, 有了一个 " 短又男性的束发 ", 和从不, 曾经修面她的腿或 underarms。 她的容貌反映了她的信念。 "如果我染了我的头发 ," 她想,"那会导致化妆, 和不可避免,到修指甲术,美颜术,裤袜水管 , 和家长统治的批发服从".但是推论本身反映了较早的时代铅版,女人一定在智力和美人,思想和身体,物质和表面之间选择的主意。 在她里面早的四十, 微笑的发现了她的外表她有计划的不重视正在送不必要的信号而且藏她的个性重要方面。 她感兴趣的男人没有视她为一个女人。 对她的治疗师焦躁的她。 治疗师把她送给他的使用彩色者。 如此开始了白色头发的她新生活而且修面了腋窝 -- 新快乐和新的意义。 " 有时我在镜子之前和只是站赞美它",她说及她的焦糖- 彩色的头发。"资讯科技是美丽,分层堆积, 发闪烁之光黄金,柔软而且火花,彩色那的一根头发在动物世界中对我和没有类似版本没有关系。 我会憎恨放弃它。"

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FeminismThey had jobs, but feminists weren't satisfied; every other woman had to get one too. So they opened fire on homemakers with a savagery that still echoes throughout our culture. A housewife is a "parasite," [Betty] Frieden writes; such women are "less than fully human" insofar as they "have never known a commitment to an idea." David Gelernter, Drawing Life, Surviving the Unabomber, Free Press, 1997, p. 95 Housewives, not men, were the prey in feminism's sights when Kate Millett decreed in 1969 that the family must go. Feminists do not speak for traditional women. Men cannot know this, however, unless we tell them how we feel about them, our children, and our role in the home. Men must understand that our feelings towards them and our children are derided by feminists and have earned us their enmity. Whether or not this understanding garners men's support, traditional women must defend ourselves because the feminist offensive is, most essentially, a breach of solidarity with us, a disavowel of the obligation to honor the Women's Pact [that religious celibates, professional women, and homemakers respect each other] that women in the movement owed to us. F. Carolyn Graglia, Domestic Tranquility, A Brief Against Feminism, Spence Publishing Company, Dallas, 1998, p. 97 "I am not the sort of woman who goes blonde," writes novelist Jane Smiley, before explaining how she did just that and, in the process, what sort of woman she discovered herself to be. A feminist intellectual and practical Midwesterner, Smiley had always "abjured vanity." She wore glasses and plain white cotton underwear, had a "short, masculine hairdo," and never, ever shaved her legs or underarms. Her looks reflected her convictions. "If I dyed my hair," she thought, "that would lead to makeup, and inevitably, to manicures, facials, panty hose, and the wholesale submission to the patriarchy." But that reasoning itself reflected the stereotypes of an earlier era, the idea that women must choose between intelligence and beauty, mind and body, substance and surface. In her early forties, Smiley discovered that her studied indifference to her appearance was sending unwanted signals and hiding important aspects of her personality. The man she was interested in didn't see her as a woman. She fretted to her therapist. The therapist sent her to his colorist. Thus began her new life of blonde hair and shaved armpits -- of new pleasures and new meaning. "Sometimes I stand in front of the mirror and simply admire it," she says of her caramel-colored hair. "It is a beautiful, layered, shimmering gold, soft and sparkly, a hair color that has no relation to me and no counterpart in the animal world. I would hate to give it up." 可以参考这个网址

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