她没有骂我英语

比较正式的说法：He often verbally abuses me.

she abused me first

1,she started the words!2,snatch ,只动作迅速的抢过来，grab则侧重于随随便便的拿过来

她先骂我：She yelled at me for nothing!

如果是同事、同学、朋友的骂，可以说He always picks on me, 或者he's always mean to me.如果是老板或者家长的骂，可以说he's always criticizing me, or, he always criticizes me, or he's always hard on my case.