兔兔水桶腰
1.the society factors. Nowadays, the socity is different from the past. Wherever we go,whatever we do,money and power are more important factors.2.lake of confidence.You may fail one time, but remember that,failure is the mother of success.If you are discourageed by your failure,you tend to be get more failures.3the changes.The world changes fast,we don't know what will happen in the future.maybe because the changes we couldn't keep up with the pace of time.
胖墩儿可可
1.unfavourable genetic background 先天的不利背景Some people are congenitally deficient or born to be poor and the inferior classes of society.This can not be changed easily only rely on their own effort. (But anyhow,miracles always happen!)2. not having a clear and definite stand and aim缺乏清晰，明确的立场和目标Working hard blindly without a clear and definite aim will not lead to success and people like that are beyond hope.3.short of self-control缺乏自我控制力Any discipline comes from self-control. People have to resist their passive attitude just like laziness and complaints,or they'll be beaten by themselves.4.being satisfied with the existing state of affairs and reluctant to move forward安于现状，不思进取People like this are easy to be satisfied and always take things as they are.They stick in the mud.So how can they succedd?5.delaying anything 总是拖延They play for time and brush past opportunity for a life's time.6.having chosen a wrong partner选错了同伴（不管是事业上的合伙人，还是人生伴侣）7.lacking of enthusiasm缺少热情8.do not know : enough is enough不懂得适可而止的道理9.doing things by guess instead of thinking只猜测，不思考10.choose a wrong area入错了领域 后面几条我不帮你展开谈了，你可以自己发挥
