柴米油盐的爱
Many of us operate in the same social circles .talking to people we've known for most of our lives. you hang out with the same friend. You hear the same voices and opinions, you rarely leave the comfort of your social circle because everyone else, everyone on the outside-- feels like a stranger. You don't know them, you're not comfortable around them. So you rein yourself to your own little corner of the world, but here's the problem. If you never meet new people, you'll never know what opportunities those people might bring. You'll never know how a new opinion could shift your perspective or how a new friend could change your life. Meeting new people isn't about atttention or popularity .it's good for expanding your horizons.it's about opening urself up to experiences you nener would have had otherwise. because new people can bring fresh views, ideas and traditions into your life. They can open your eyes to things you never saw before. 先不要看下面的译文，看看上面这一段励志的英文，自己翻译一下，锻炼锻炼，看能翻译出来吧，不想把英语丢掉的小伙伴，给你点赞！我们中的许多人都在同一个社交圈里活动，和我们大半生都认识的人聊天交流，你经常和同一个朋友出去玩。你会听到同样的声音和观点，你很少离开社交圈的舒适，因为其他人--所有在外面的人，都感觉像陌生人。你不了解他们，所以你和他们在一起会感觉不舒服。所以你把自己控制在自己的小世界里。但问题是:如果你从不认识新的人，你永远不会知道这些人会带来什么机会。你永远不会知道一个新的观点会如何改变你的看法，或者一个新朋友会如何改变你的生活。结识新朋友不是为了获得关注或如何受欢迎程度，它有助于拓展你的视野。它是有助于开放自己的经历，否则你不会有新收获。因为新人可以给你的生活带来新的观点、想法和传统。他们能让你看到你从未见过的东西。
柔和的风0751
There's a concept in psychology called "the comfort zone," which is a place or situation where you feel safe, comfortable, and without stress. It sounds nice and peaceful, doesn't it? Who wouldn't like to live in such a place all the time? Unfortunately, if you never venture outside of your comfort zone, you'll never grow. A kid who never tries cycling downhill because he's afraid of scraping his knee will never feel confident while riding a bike. A shy woman who always avoids social settings because she fears embarrassment will always feels self-conscious around others. A gym-goer who never tries lifting heavier weights because he's afraid he won't be able to lift them will never grow his muscles.Heck! If it wasn't for the first curious prehistoric humans, we would still live in caves. And you most certainly wouldn't be watching this video now. Leaving your comfort zone, as uncomfortable and stressful as that can be sometimes, is a must if you want to grow as a person. Make it a habit to try new things as often as you can. Skydiving, talking to that random stranger, learning a foreign language, picking a strange new book, taking Argentinian tango classes, rock climbing, learning how to sew... What new things will you try today? 翻译: 心理学当中有个概念叫做「舒适圈」，那是你会感到安全的一种地方或情况，而且舒服又没有压力。听起来还满不错又平静的，对吧？谁不会想一直住在这样的地方呢？ 很不幸的是，如果你从不跨出舒适圈去冒险的话，你永远不会成长。一个害怕擦伤膝盖而从不试着骑脚踏车下坡的孩子，他永远不会满怀信心地骑车。一个因为怕尴尬而总是避免社交场合的害羞女性，她永远都会在他人面前感到扭捏。一个去健身房但因为怕举不动而从不试着举更重的人，他永远都无法再练壮他的肌肉。 见鬼了!若不是因为最早那群充满好奇的史前人类，我们现在还会住在山洞里呢。而你现在就绝对不会在看这部影片了。 离开你的舒适圈，虽然那有时候会让人感到不舒服或是有压力，那是件必须的事，如果你想要自我成长的话。养成尽可能多尝试新事物的习惯。跳伞、随便跟一个陌生人讲话、学一种外语、挑一本没看过的新书、上阿根廷探戈的课、攀岩、学习缝纫... 今天你要挑战哪项新事物呢？
