如果不是因为英文

Because of her, I lose my original appearance.

if it was for her , i would not lost my look

Should not be because of her, I wouldn't have lost my appearance.

If it is not because I care about (you), how can I have so much emotion你的采纳 我的动力希望我能继续帮助你

无能 incompetent, incapable我无能，如果不是因为我的无能或许就不会导致今天的局面I am incompetent. If it wasn't for my incompetence we wouldn't have this situation today!或I am incompetent. If it hadn't been for my incompetence we wouldn't have this situation today!前面的 I am incompetent.可以省略， 句子已经有“我无能”的含义。这个翻译是地道的。我是加拿大人，英语母语。