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daily life tips When nothing is going right, go left - leave it behind you and move on to something else, it's ok to quit something you can never succeed at.When you are overwhelmed with too many things to do and it feels like you don't have enough time to finish all of it, sweep the floor - do something simple that will make your area seem less cluttered, this will allow you time to calm down and see that it is not as much as you may have thought previously.Treat everything in life the way a dog would: if you can't eat it or fuck it, forget it.It's better to step aside to allow a dog to pass than to be bitten while contesting your right. Even killing the dog won't cure the bite.Gambling is a waste of beer money - having a vice is ok, everyone has some flaw, but multiple vices will drastically increase the negativity in your life.Always give a close or intimate friend two chances for any specific action that hurts you - first mistake can be blamed on their parents, they didn't raise them right, the second time they should have known better, the third time they are incompetent and need to be removed.You might see things that aren't there, but you will never not see things that aren't there - it's impossible to argue that you are not seeing things that aren't there, you can't win that one in any possible reality.If one person calls you a horse, call him an ass. If another person calls you a horse, punch him in the throat, if another person calls you a horse, it might be time to look for a saddle - one or two people might try to decieve or mock you, but if everyone tells you the same thing, they are probably right.If a person is very excited about helping you to improve yourself, but they only have one way of doing that, don't trust them - a person who wants to completely control your life "for your own good" aren't doing it for you.Everyone is guilty of using other people. Accept it and do not feel guilty when you realize that you do it too. Learn to be comfortable with being used and using others, but never use anyone upNever leave the one you love for the one you like. The one you like will leave you for the one they loveIf you meet a person who will criticize you immediately and bluntly in a way that seems completely rude or offensive, keep that person close and never let them slip away. You will rarely find a person who cares about you that much. When you find someone who cares about you enough to tell you exactly how you do things wrong, make sure you appreciate that personWhen you complain about all the things that are going wrong in your life, 90% of people don't care and 10% are just happy it's not themSaying you can quit anytime you want but you don't want to is the same as saying you can'tYour wife's emotional state is more important than your need to be rightBehind every great man is a woman who believed in him and inspired him to be the best man he could be. Behind every man who lost everything in life is a woman who disrespected him and withheld affection from himIf you ever catch yourself complaining "this always happens to me," that means you are doing something wrong
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