爱情观的英语作文

您好：这个合适吗？好的话就给分吧，好就采纳。谢谢！！！《我看大学生恋爱》步入大学，许多同学都步入了大学恋爱这一人生事业当中。在大学校园里，常常能见到一对对“有情人”手拉着手，肩并着肩，亲密无间地走在宽阔的校道上，大学恋爱已成为大学校园里一道靓丽的风景线。而作为大学生的我们，是应该选择“一切从恋爱开始”呢，还是认为“天涯何处无芳草，何必非要现在找”，这就取决于我们对爱情的态度以及自身的恋爱观。 大学恋爱可遇而不可求。爱情是个奇怪的东西，你有意去寻找它时，它偏不出现，而你又有可能在无意中收获了美好的爱情。有一句话说得好：“是你的就是你的，不是你的强求也没用。”随着大学生心理和生理上的逐渐成熟，对爱情的渴望也渐渐强烈，这就使得有些大学生“饥不择食”，不管对方是否和自己志趣相同，情投意合，而只凭双方初次见面或经过几次接触之后，以掩耳不及迅雷之势迅速地确立了恋爱关系。这种由于一时冲动而获得的爱情常常是“无疾而终”，因为开始时没有深入地了解对方，而将来随着对对方了解的深入，双方的缺点会越来越多地暴露出来，从而使双方的矛盾也不断加深，最终导致感情的破裂。而大学生往往心理承受能力较弱，面对感情挫折时，有些大学生会自暴自弃，从此无心向学，更有甚者会做出极端行为来伤害对方。所以，心急吃不了热豆腐，我们并不用刻意地去追求大学的爱情，应当一切随缘，如果爱情真的会来，你躲也躲不掉！" 凡事都有个“度”，恋爱也不例外。如果能把握好这个“度”，正确处理好学业与爱情的关系，那么，在大学中谈恋爱也未必是一件坏事。爱情具有巨大的鼓舞力量，它能够振奋人的精神，使大学生们把爱情作为奋发学习的动力。 如何能够兼顾好学业与爱情，是恋爱中的大学生所面临的问题。绝大多数大学生能够正确看待学业与爱情的关系。他们赞成学习是学生的天职，大学阶段应以学习为主，爱情应当服从学业；或者希望学业与爱情双丰收，既渴望学业有成，又向往爱情幸福。总之，大都没有忘记学业，总想把学业放在首要的位置。但是，上述这些仅仅是大学生主观上、思想上的愿望而已。 真正在客观上、行为上能够正确处理好学业与爱情关系的大学生，虽然也有，但为数不多。更多的是一旦坠入情网就不能自拔，有些大学生整天沉浸在卿卿我我的甜言蜜语中，这样做的后果是导致大学生们无意于学习，荒废了学业。可见，摆正学业与爱情的关系，是大学生难以控制而又必须正确处理的问题！大学生恋爱不能只重过程而不顾后果，当代大学生注重的是恋爱过程本身，至于恋爱的结果已经不太在意。注重恋爱过程，有利于双方相互了解、加深认识，也有利于培养感情、增加心理相容度，同时也反映出大学生不愿落入俗套，着意追求爱的真谛。但是，如果“不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有”，这种做法也不可取。一些大学生把恋爱当作一种感情体验，及时行乐，借以寻求刺激，满足精神享受，一些大学生是为了充实课余生活，解除寂寞，填补空虚，把恋爱当作一种消遣文化。只重恋爱过程，轻视恋爱结果，实质上是只强调爱的权利，而否认爱的责任。爱情不是自私地占有对方的感情，而是自觉自愿地为所挚爱的人付出感情、担当责任。那些抱着对大学恋爱只是玩玩而已的心态去尝试的做法是不可取的。而且我们在日常生活中也要正确认识友情与爱情，切莫把友情错当作爱情。 综上所述，我们大学生恋爱应该采取正确的方式，更要正确地处理好学业与爱情的关系，分清主导地位和次要地位。只有形成了正确的恋爱观，才能实现学业和爱情双丰收。不过，在大学阶段里，我个人认为恋爱还是弊大于利的，所以说，万般皆下品，惟有读书高，待到功成名就时，天涯何处无芳草？英文版→→《I love to see students》Entered the university, many students have entered the university in which the cause of love in this life. On university campuses, often to see the pair of "lovers" hand in hand, arm in arm, intimate school to walk in the wide trail, the University has become the love of a beautiful campus of the University landscape. As our students, should select the "love everything from the beginning", or that "Splendor in the Grass, why do you now find", which depends on our attitude and self-love to love. University of Love scarce. Love is a strange thing, when you intend to find it, it is chosen not appear, and you may have inadvertently harvested a beautiful love. There is a saying that goes: "You is you, not your force is useless." With Psychological and physiological maturity, the desire for love has gradually strong, which makes some students "hungry" , regardless of whether the other party and their own hobbies and interests, fall in love, but just by the two sides first met, or after several contacts, with their ears less than Thunder trend quickly established a relationship. Such as impulsive and receive love often "die a natural death," because the beginning is not in-depth understanding of each other, and in the future as in-depth understanding of each other, the two sides of the shortcomings will be exposed more and more, so that both sides contradictions are deepening, leading to feelings of rupture. The mental capacity of the weaker students often face feelings of frustration, some students will give up on themselves, from unmotivated, and some even make extreme behavior to hurt each other. Therefore, Eat Hot Tofu, we do not use deliberately to pursue university of love, should all revel, if love really will come, you hide can escape! " Everything has a "degree", love is no exception. If you can grasp the "degree", correctly handle the relationship between the school and love, then love in the universities is not necessarily a bad thing. Love has a huge inspiration, it can inspire the human spirit, so that students who work hard to love as a motivation to learn. How to balance a good school and love, is love in the problems faced by college students. Most studies with college students to a correct view of love relationships. They are in favor of learning is the bounden duty of the students, college should be a learning-based, love should be subject to school; or want to love school and bumper, both eager to academic success, but also yearning for love and happiness. In short, most studies have not forgotten, always want to school the first priority. However, these students only subjective, ideological aspiration. The real objective, behavioral studies to correctly handle the relationship with the love of the students, although there are, but a few. Is once more to find themselves unable to fall in love, some college students all day immersed in the sweet affectionate, the consequences of doing so is not intended to lead college students to learn, they neglected their studies. Visible, straighten the relationship between the school and love, is difficult to control students who must correctly handle the problem!Students not only on the process of love regardless of the consequences, is the focus of contemporary college students love the process itself, as the results have been less concerned about love. Focus on the process of love, help mutual understanding, deepen understanding, but also conducive to cultivate their feelings, increase the degree of psychological compatibility, but also reflects the university students do not want to fall into the stereotypes, intentionally pursue the true meaning of love. However, if "does not last forever, only care to have", this approach undesirable. Some college students to experience love as a feeling, carpe diem, to seek excitement, to meet the spirit of enjoyment, some of the students in order to enrich the school life, relieve loneliness, to fill the void, to love as a pastime culture. Only on the process of love, contempt love the results, in essence, only emphasized the right to love, and love denied responsibility. Love is not selfish to share each other's feelings, but voluntarily pay for the feelings of loved ones, take responsibility. Those holding the university just for fun, love to try the mentality approach is not desirable. And we have a correct understanding of everyday life friendship and love, the friendship was not to mistake as love. In summary, our graduates should take the right way to love, but also to correctly handle the relationship between the school and love, to distinguish between dominant and secondary status. Only the formation of the correct Outlook on Love, love, in order to achieve academic and bumper. However, in college, I personally think love is more harm than good, so that things are beneath contempt, only high school, until the fame, Splendor in the Grass?给分吧，20分队我来说很重要！