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本篇文章主要从研究生的社会观和价值观方面来谈其社会责任，具体如下：
A survey on the question of "what graduate students think a person's value depends on" found that graduate students think that a person's value is mainly affected by the reputation of society. In today's social environment that is generally in pursuit of fame and fortune, graduates' values and outlook on life are inevitably affected. Through the survey, we can find that the value of a graduate’s value depends mainly on his social reputation. The number of people selected by this option accounts for 38%; the second is the size of this person’s contribution to society. The proportion of this part is 22%. Once again, money, rights, and life are comfortable. The proportion of these three options is not much different; the least option is a personality of only 1%. From this, it can be seen that current graduate students have rarely used personality as a measure of a person. Standard, which may also imply that the personality of these graduate students will be the last factor he considers after they enter the society.
Graduate students themselves should be more exposed to society, but in the face of social thoughts and trends, they must face and treat them rationally, objectively, and correctly, and at the same time they must be able to learn from the strengths and strengths of others and make up for their weaknesses. Schools can often organize relevant thought exchange activities to enable graduate students of different disciplines to exchange ideas together, and also can give lectures to promote correct ideas to graduate students and help them establish correct ideas.
Many graduate students have more or less problems with responsibility, and a small part of them even lack a sense of responsibility. Under the influence of the market economy, people pay too much attention to direct economic benefits. The starting point of all behaviors is to maximize profits, which may cause the lack of sense of responsibility of graduate students and adversely affect society.
译文：通过对“研究生认为一个人的价值取决于什么”这一问题的调查发现，研究生较多认为一个人的价值主要受社会名望高低影响。在当今这样一个普遍追求名利的社会环境中，研究生的价值观、人生观不免要受到影响。
通过调查可以发现研究生认为一个人价值的高低主要取决于他的社会名望的高低，该选项选择的人数占到了38%；其次是这个人对社会的贡献的大小，这一部分的比例是22%，再次是金钱、权利、生活是否舒适，这三个选项的比例相差不大；最少的选项是人格只有1%，通过这个可以看出现在的研究生已经很少有把人格用来当做衡量一个人的标准，这或许也暗示了这些研究生走上社会之后人格会是他最后考虑的因素。
研究生本身应该多接触社会，但是面对社会上的思想和风气，要理性，客观、正确地面对和看待，同时也要能够从不同人的观点中学习别人的优点长处，弥补自己的短处。学校可以经常组织相关思想交流活动，让不同学科的研究生能够在一起交流思想，同时也可以开展讲座，向研究生宣传正确的思想，帮助研究生树立正确的思想观念。
许多研究生在责任感方面有着或多或少的问题，有一小部分甚至缺乏责任感。在市场经济的影响下，人们过度地关注直接的经济收益，所有行为的出发点都是利益最大化，这样就有可能引起研究生责任感的缺失，对社会造成不良影响。
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China has four famous outlaws ", "three kingdoms", "monkey" and "a dream of red mansions", department of all is excellent, but as a girl, the first three without much interest for me, involving the military, political, myths, so most attract me of a dream of red mansions."A dream of red mansions" with sadness, desolate atmosphere, let a person often want to cry, the poetry and let people have to succumb to below, no wonder so many people in the study of a dream of red mansions.The story is about a decline, the size of a family. Hero as jia baoyu, he should say is a soft in the belt just a little man, he has partly because of the soft environment, their home remittent almost all women in the family, the woman is naturally a word "Wolf will learn to howl. Their family because of a woman to come home when the emperor's pet princess and remove, so they YinShi mirth, and one day two women shall not ask, it is xue baochai and Lin daiyu. Lin daiyu, sentimental, but suspicion naturally jia baoyu is like her, her body is weak, our ancestors were her, he cheated, xue baochai jia baoyu and Lin daiyu, while in grieve not uncover xi palmer discovered jia baoyu, Lin daiyu and Lin daiyu, grief, and the house was monk.
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Published in 1847, WUTHERING HEIGHTS was not well received by the reading public, many of whom condemned it as sordid, vulgar, and unnatural--and author Emily Bronte went to her grave in 1848 believing that her only novel was a failure. It was not until 1850, when WUTHERING HEIGHTS received a second printing with an introduction by Emily's sister Charlotte, that it attracted a wide readership. And from that point the reputation of the book has never looked back. Today it is widely recognized as one of the great novels of English literature. Even so, WUTHERING HEIGHTS continues to divide readers. It is not a pretty love story; rather, it is swirling tale of largely unlikeable people caught up in obsessive love that turns to dark madness. It is cruel, violent, dark and brooding, and many people find it extremely unpleasant. And yet--it possesses a grandeur of language and design, a sense of tremendous pity and great loss that sets it apart from virtually every other novel written. The novel is told in the form of an extended flashback. After a visit to his strange landlord, a newcomer to the area desires to know the history of the family--which he receives from Nelly Deans, a servant who introduces us to the Earnshaw family who once resided in the house known as Wuthering Heights. It was once a cheerful place, but Old Earnshaw adopted a "Gipsy" child who he named Heathcliff. And Catherine, daughter of the house, found in him the perfect companion: wild, rude, and as proud and cruel as she. But although Catherine loves him, even recognizes him as her soulmate, she cannot lower herself to marry so far below her social station. She instead marries another, and in so doing sets in motion an obsession that will destroy them all. WUTHERING HEIGHTS is a bit difficult to "get into;" the opening chapters are so dark in their portrait of the end result of this obsessive love that they are somewhat off-putting. But they feed into the flow of the work in a remarkable way, setting the stage for one of the most remarkable structures in all of literature, a story that circles upon itself in a series of repetitions as it plays out across two generations. Catherine and Heathcliff are equally remarkable, both vicious and cruel, and yet never able to shed their impossible love no matter how brutally one may wound the other. As the novel coils further into alcoholism, seduction, and one of the most elaborately imagined plans of revenge it gathers into a ghostly tone: Heathcliff, driven to madness by a woman who is not there but who seems reflected in every part of his world--dragging her corpse from the grave, hearing her calling to him from the moors, escalating his brutality not for the sake of brutality but so that her memory will never fade, so that she may never leave his mind until death itself. Yes, this is madness, insanity, and there is no peace this side of the grave or even beyond. Many people in the world are trying to find a perfect companion.Some of these may marry and not know what their new husband or wife is like.This kind of situation often leads to separation or hostility. Other situations may develop between two friends that stem from jealousy, desire for revenge, uncaring parents, etc. Emily Brontë's Wuthering Heights displays several characteristics of destructive relationships. Three of these are uncaring parents, marriage without knowing the person, and jealousy. Uncaring or unsympathizing parents are shown throughout this story to be an element of destructive relationships. Because Heathcliff gained all the attention from Mr. Earnshaw, Hindley became disassociated from his father. This separation continued until after Mr. Earnshaw had died.Another example is between Hindley and Hareton. Hindley became such a drunk and a gambler that he could not properly care for young Hareton. This led to a separation between Hareton and his father as well. One primary example of an uncaring parent is shown between Heathcliff and his son Linton.Heathcliff did not even want his son for anything except enacting a part of his revenge. This is shown by Linton's fear of Heathcliff and Heathcliff's enmity toward his son. Linton even says "... my father threatened me, and I dread him - I dread him!"(244) to express his feeling about Heathcliff.The hostility and separation between father and son in this book shows that uncaring parents can cause serious damage in relationships with their children. This element of destructive behavior may stem from an unhappy marriage in which the husbands or wives don't know each other. This had happened between Isabella and Heathcliff. Isabella did not really know Heathcliff when she married him, but after she had married him she saw that Heathcliff was not a gentleman at all. To declare her feelings she wrote "Is Heathcliff a man? If so, is he mad? And if not, is he a devil? I shan't tell my reasons for making this inquiry; but I beseech you to explain, if you can, what I have married ..."(125). Another example of this is when Catherine married Edgar Linton. Although she had been happy at the beginning of the marriage, she thought having parties all the time was going to be fun. Yet, after a while, she became bored. She also realized that she loved Heathcliff more than Edgar and would always love Heathcliff.This enlightenment created separation between Edgar and Catherine during the final hours of Cathy's life. An additional marriage which was made that was doomed was the one between Catherine and Linton. Because this was a forced marriage, Cathy had not yet learned all she could about Linton.Because she did not know until after the marriage that Linton was selfish and inconsiderate, she became distressed and grew isolated in the house.These three failed marriages described in this novel show that knowing the person you will marry is very important.While these marriages took place, jealousy also took a hold in some relationships. One example of this is when Mr. Earnshaw starts to favor Heathcliff over his own son, Hindley. Because of this, Hindley becomes jealous of young Heathcliff and sets out to make Heathcliff's life a nightmare. Hindley's jealousy becomes evident when he says ,"... be damned you beggarly interloper! and wheedle my father out of all he has; only afterwards show him what you are, imp of Satan."(35). Jealousy was also found very notably in the relationship between Heathcliff and Edgar Linton. The jealousy between them is expressed when Heathcliff and Edgar start a hostile conversation after Cathy's homecoming at Christmas near the beginning of the book. As the story progresses these two become bitter enemies who will not speak to one another. Another relationship which jealousy ruined is the one between Hareton and Linton. These two become jealous of each other over Cathy's affections. This relationship ends as Hareton and Linton hating each other. These relationships show that jealousy can ruin a relationship very quickly. The housekeeper Ellen Dean, or we can call her Nelly, tells most of the story. She witnesses the life of the three-generations in the two families. She is a good storyteller but we mustn’t believe all of what she said. She always thinks and considers things in a simple way. She couldn’t understand the deep love between Catherine and Heathcliff. She thinks it is a kind of madness. She is a limited narrator. In a certain way, this helps readers to understand Heathcliff better because he has no chance to defend himself. An outsider will see the whole thing more clearly. However, we should pay more attention not to be affect by her opinions and try to find the truth between the lines. As a main character Catherine is a paradox. She is attracted by Linton but doesn’t love him. She knows that clearly but she marries Linton without listening to the call of her heart. Many critics believe that what makes her marry Linton is only his high social status and wealth. I think this comment is unfair. In fact, she folly thinks to marry Linton will help Heathcliff “to rise and place him out of my brother’s power.” Her decision ruins herself, Heathcliff and the two families. She has to endure serious suffering because she knows clearly she love Heathcliff whole-heartedly but can’t become his wife. She confesses to Nelly her own thoughts: “…I am Heathcliff—he’s always, always in my mind—not as a pleasure, any more than I am always a pleasure to myself—but as my own being…” She loves Heathcliff because he is more like her than herself. His existence is natural to her for they are the same in nature. They could understand each other without obstacles. Talking about Heathcliff, he is an evil person but I admire him because his love and hate is straight. Everyone has a devil in his heart. The one in Heathcliff’s heart is especially strong. In spite of this, I believe and can read between the lines that Amily Bronte also has her favor to Heathcliff. She wants to tell us evil and love are deeply planted in everyone’s heart and it is human nature.
