你要懂别人的英语

You should (must) be good at observing the people around you, understanding their characters, and determine who is more suitable to be your friend.

1) You should try to learn the way to understand others.2) You have to try to understand others.

try to know her deep world first if you want her to know yours

【想要别人懂你必须先懂别人】:Understand others before you want them to understand you.【你脸皮不是一般的厚】:You are so think-skinned. You have such a thick skin.【说累 谁都比你累】:Each one is as tired as you, don't complain.Don't tell me you are tired, we too. 【一切只是借口而已，伪君子】: These are only excuses, hypocrite.