南得珍贵
What is happiness Happy is neither a gift nor a right,we must take the initiative to seek out,heart to pursue in order to obtain.When you try new things,accept new challenges,because you will discover a new dimension of life but pleasantly surprised.There are dreams,there to pursue,there will be happy.Because the course of the struggle and achieve the goals of the brilliant,can engender immense pleasure.What is happiness - we have to learn to tell myself over and not with others than to recognize their own weaknesses and humbly accept the recommendations of others,help and advice,to abandon his mind to bear the "accomplishments" stress.Believe that today better than yesterday and tomorrow better than today.What is happiness - "caring only for their own people will turn their own slaves." If only for myself,life will become narrow-minded,always been limited."Human need for love",to be respected by others,first of all to respect other people first,when you right around anything,then full of love,the world will become a better human.Happiness is a state of mind,happiness is not from the object,it is not a thing.Happy is not a chase - you do not need to firmly grasp it,because it's in your heart,you have got it.But this does not mean you do not need to contribute their energies to it.Happy like a party,you sit down to enjoy the fun - but only you want it,you are ready for it until lightly come prepared to allow himself happy bar!Let the good place bar!If you are not happy,then the best way to find happiness is to boost morale,so that actions and words seem to have felt happy look.Make your face showing a happy smiling face to upright,properly took a deep breath,and then sing a short song; If you are harmonically-challenged,on the whistle; if you do not whistle,we sing a ballad.You will soon discover that you simply will not be worried and decadence go on.If we want to develop peaceful and happy state of mind,please remember the following words:"With a happy thought and action,you can be happy." Happy living columnist Harris and friends to buy a newspaper on the newsstand,friends,and politely said thank you to the newspaper vendors,but the newspaper vendors had lengkou cold shoulder,without a word."This guy,poor attitude,is not it?" They move on when Harris asked."He's like every night." Friend."Then why are you so kind to him?" Harris asked.Friend A:"Why should I let him decide my actions?" Every one has the "key to happiness," but we are often unwittingly give it to someone else in charge.
一粒砂的梦想
热爱我们的生活However mean your life is,meet it and live it ;do not shun it and call it hard names.It is not so bad as you are.It looks poorest when you are richest.The fault-finder will find faults in paradise.Love your life,poor as it is.You may perhaps have some pleasant,thrilling,glorious hourss,even in a poor-house.The setting sun is reflected from the windows of the alms-house as brightly as from the rich man's abode;the snow melts before its door as early in the spring.I do not see but a quiet mind may live as contentedly there,and have as cheering thoughts,as in a palace.The town's poor seem to me often to live the most independent lives of any.May be they are simply great enough to receive without misgiving.Most think that they are above being supported by the town;but it often happens that they are not above supporting themselves by dishonest means.which should be more disreputable.Cultivate poverty like a garden herb,like sage.Do not trouble yourself much to get new things,whether clothes or friends,Turn the old,return to them.Things do not change;we change.Sell your clothes and keep your thoughts.不论你的生活如何卑贱，你要面对它生活，不要躲避它，更别用恶言咒骂它。它不像你那样坏。你最富有的时候，倒是看似最穷。爱找缺点的人就是到天堂里也能找到缺点。你要爱你的生活，尽管它贫穷。甚至在一个济贫院里，你也还有愉快、高兴、光荣的时候。夕阳反射在济贫院的窗上，像身在富户人家窗上一样光亮;在那门前，积雪同在早春融化。我只看到，一个从容的人，在哪里也像在皇宫中一样，生活得心满意足而富有愉快的思想。城镇中的穷人，我看，倒往往是过着最独立不羁的生活。也许因为他们很伟大，所以受之无愧。大多数人以为他们是超然的，不靠城镇来支援他们;可是事实上他们是往往利用了不正当的手段来对付生活，他们是毫不超脱的，毋宁是不体面的。视贫穷如园中之花而像圣人一样耕植它吧!不要找新的花样，无论是新的朋友或新的衣服，来麻烦你自己。找旧的，回到那里去。万物不变，是我们在变。你的衣服可以卖掉，但要保留你的思想。
